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The Skin Series: Cleansers





My favourite part of the day: taking off my making and cleansing my face. Let me make it clear that taking your makeup off is very different to cleansing.

I liken it to doing your floors at home. You brush off any dirt - i.e. take the rough off like taking off your makeup. Going in with a makeup remover or micellar water is perfect for this. I always do this bit with cotton pads as it helps you to see how much you've got off! 2 - 3 cotton pads later, I go in with cleanser. This is like mopping your floors! If you continue just to brush and not mop, you're going to have some deep dirt in there!

Cleansing is so important, particularly if you wear a heavy foundation. Stockpile on face cloths - they are so cheap so make sure to use a fresh one every day for the ultimate cleansing experience. 

A few of my favourite cleansers are:

An amazing product for the price. It easily melts makeup away on both your face and eyes (I love anything you can out on your eyes too!). I love to double cleanse with this if I have a heavy makeup day. A great cleanser for all skin types. 

This is my 'oh my skin feels a bit dirty' cleanser. Maybe you're having a busy week and your skin hasn't been your priority. This is a foam cleanser (which I have to admit that I usually don't like!) but as the name suggests, this cleanser gives a lovely deep clean resulting in a post cleanse glow! I recommend this for dull skin and particularly like to use it in the winter months. 

This is a recent addition for me. Full of 'good' ingredients, this gel cleanser leaves your skin squeaky clean. This is my go to on days I haven't been wearing much makeup or for a second cleanse. Good for normal & oily skin types ... and great for men and women (and any teenager you might have in the house!). An all rounder! 

One of my original favourite cleansers. My preference is always for a milk or an oil because I feel they are nourishing and gentle on my skin. The Yon-Ka cleanser is again great for all skin types and leaves your skin soft. I've been using this cleanser for over 5 years and continue to repurchase it! Plus a bottle seems to last for ages!

In summary - find a cleanser that works for you! I've tried hundreds over the years but you know your skin best. Make sure your cleanser makes your skin feel clean but not tight. If you notice makeup on your pillow cases, a double cleanse might be required for you. Cleansing is the most important step in achieving your skincare goals - start as you mean to go on!

The Skin Series: Inside Out





It's the posts you've all been asking for... skincare! Over my past almost 8 years blogging, I've talked about skin and products endlessly. However, I'd say it has taken until the last year for me to get my skincare routine down to a tee. It's been a lot of trial and error but mostly, learning what my body responds to from the inside out.

I decided to do skincare justice that this will be a five part series, starting with understanding the key thing that has made a difference to me. Learning what causes your skin flare ups has been key to me making my skin so much better. Hopefully my advice will resonate with you. I'm not a skin expert (but I promise I'll tell you who my fab people to go to are in this series!) but I feel like I've learned so much that I wanted to share it with you all. My posts are hopefully designed to make you think and devise your own skin solutions. 

Let's start with things that can make your skin go up the left... 

Hormones
It's a pretty obvious one. Always get a bit spotty around your time of the month? It's a very obvious warning sign of your impending monthly visitor. Hormones can also play havoc with your skin in pregnancy and menopause with lots of people reporting excess oil or extreme dryness. For me, I always get one 'period spot' on my chin ahead of my time of the month and tend to be a little bit oiler - the oil will account of the spot. Using products tailored to helping excess oil in your period week can really help get this under control. 

Stress
This is the BIGGEST skin disruptor for me. For years I couldn't work out why my skin was playing up but taking time to asses it, stress can make my skin go haywire. In fact, this year when I was moving jobs and moving into my house, my skin completely exploded. I wasn't taking time to look after my skin, remove my makeup properly and I wasn't eating well. All of these stress factors contributed to my skin looking dull and spotty. Self-care is key to this one - take time for your skin even when life gets really busy. 

Weather
The warm and cold can cause skin to have a little freak out. Particularly if you are going from one extreme to another, your skin may get really tight with dryness. This is a great reason to go for a seasonal facial to address any skin concerns you may have and to update your products from season to season. 

Water
Along with stress, water is the other big factor for me. Ideally, my skin likes 3 litres of water a day. This seems like a lot but the more I drink, the clearer and more plump my skin will be. It means I pee 20 times a day, but it's worth it for good skin!

Supplements 
A controversial one but I've been taking some supplements that I have felt have really helped with my skin texture and overall glow. Firstly, the Clear Marine Krill Oil is a great supplement for helping those hormonal breakouts. I also found it really helped with my PMS symptoms. I have recently started trying out Nature's Bounty chewy multivitamin gummies (available at Medicare) - both the collagen and biotin versions. I've noticed hair growth already with the biotin ones and find they are a really easy way to get in some good skin boosting ingredients such as Vitamin C to help with brightness. 

Stay tuned for post 2 all about cleansers...

The Injectable Debate


Injectables.... botox, fillers... are HUGE business right now. It's something I've watched a meteoric growth of in the past five years where now, going to get your botox is as normal as a teeth cleaning at the dentist. 

The growth of injectables has made me really assess if it's an option I need to explore. I know many of you have come to this post probably hoping for me to confess what I've had done but short of the odd heavy duty skin peel, I've never done anything invasive like injectables. There's an abundance of people offering injectables at the moment which scares me a little. It's quite like the dodgy hair extensions epidemic of a few years ago. It isn't a tightly regulated business and people doing injectables seem to be popping up everywhere. The cost can vary from £50 to £500 and you can go everywhere from your dentist to your local hairdressers down the street. 

The rise of injectables has given me reason to look at my own face and think about what I would improve. Do I need bigger lips? Do I need my brows lifted a little bit? Do I want Khloe Kardashian style jaw fillers? I have never really felt insecure about my face. In fact my face & my legs are the only two things that I feel I wouldn't want to change. But, when something becomes so popular, regardless of what your own thoughts are, you start to indulge in 'Should I join the crowds' mindset. It's a fear of missing out - despite the obvious cost and pain involved!

I'm not running down injectables because they certainly have their place & have given lots of women and men the confidence they really desired. If you choose to do it, go to someone who is professional and you've seen lots of their work that has come out beautifully. 

Part of my confusion around injectables has some from so many companies approaching me to offer me free injectables to promote their business. I found it was a strange pitch because my ultimate reaction was 'Well they must think I need something done if they are offering these to me'. But I suppose that's the point - I feel like I need something so I go to that business and give them publicity. But that scares me too - what if I hated it? What if I sent you all somewhere and you had a bad experience? This isn't just a manicure that you can take off with remover, you're actually messing with your face. I've made the decision that if I ever want to get something, that I'll do it on my terms paying for everything with someone I trust. 

I've had the injectable chat with a few practitioners - two of which told me I had a lovely face and they wouldn't change a thing. I found this really decent because the easiest thing would be to take my money. Ethical practitioners are a gem to find - seek them out. So, if you are in the same mindset as met  give yourself a break. If you really want something done, go for a few consultations an weigh up your options. Although injectables aren't a life long commitment, I do feel that they start an addiction once you've seen the results.

Be wise and be kind with yourself - do you really need injectables or are you following the crowd? I'm 26 and I don't have any wrinkles or creases yet. Perhaps when that day comes, I will feel differently. So whether that day is five or fifteen years down the road, I will still apply my own rules of going for a few consultations. 

Do you research, ask all the questions and ensure you are 100% comfortable before you embark on anything. 

Making recycling fashionable

*this is an advertisement with Antrim & Newtownabbey Borough Council



I'm an avid recycler for two reasons. 
1. I get SO many blogger parcels that have a lot of cardboard packaging
2. I am also an avid online shopper (again SO much cardboard!) 

It often does upset me the amount of packaging that comes with the smallest of parcels so when Antrim & Newtownabbey Borough Council asked me did I want to talk about recycling, I jumped at the chance. I've lived in Newtownabbey my whole life and my grandmother is also very passionate about recycling. We're pretty good at recycling here in Newtownabbey & Antrim but the council wants us to recycle 4% more by the end of the year - which we can definitely do! Recycling saves energy, helps reduce landfill and protects the environment - all SO important for the generations that will come after us. 

Over 90% of waste in Newtownabbey and Antrim comes from households and the biggest culprit is food waste followed by paper & cardboard! The council challenged me to double my recycling, particularly in these areas. I find recycling paper and cardboard easy - it often tends to be so bulky. I always put a bag over the handle of my back door so I'm not constantly nipping outside with my recycling - especially when you dread it because it's raining! 

In terms of food waste, I realised like so many people, that I waste so much food either by it going out of date or cooking too much (I'm still getting used to just cooking for myself!). This made me cut down on my portion sizes and weekly shop - I felt very guilty about this food waste more than anything. It took me back to being a child when my Grandmother would complain about how lucky I was to have food when I didn't finish my dinner. When you start to seriously recycle all your food waste, you do feel like you are less wasteful. 

Recycling is really easy in my eyes  - it's a habit you need to get into early on. As I just moved into my new house in January, I started then to make sure I continued on a good path! Having cool recycling bins in Newtownabbey really helps - each box is marked to show you what you can put in to them as well as a black bin & brown bin. One of the best things I learned was that you can put your takeaway pizza boxes into the brown bin - top tip! Also you can recycle kitchen roll in your paper recycling bin! We are good at recycling plastic but it must be more rigid packaging like mushroom & grape trays as well as bleach bottles etc rather than lighter packaging. 

Making sure you put your stuff in the right bins is really important - give things a quick wash before you chuck them in too! Going out on the truck with the recycling team made me realise they have a tough job so try to make their life a little easier by helping. The day I went out was SO rainy and cold. There's no days off for them! 

Make sure to watch my video (and excuse me being so weather beaten in it!) and learn a little bit more about how #IRecycleRight. If you're still confused, head to http://www.antrimandnewtownabbey.gov.uk/recycling for more information. 

Modern romance


Swipe left, swipe right. Bumble. Plenty of Fish. 'What's your Snapchat name?'. 

Dating in 2018 is something else. My (very wise) aunt commented recently that she'd hate to be my age again as it seems to be so complicated.... and it is! Our 'swiping' culture seems to focus a lot more on hook-ups than on long term relationships. It's a confusing place to be in as people's intentions online can seem very different to those in real life. 

You get the ones who are the chancers. They'll have all the chat, lure you into thinking they are nice but then are still looking for a quick fix. You get the direct ones who like to open with a dirty line straight away. And you get everything in between. I've gone on Tinder dates with limited success and the ironic thing is, I've always met people through friends, work or nights out that have been of any lasting value. 

I know this situation isn't unique to me. I could name you at least ten beautiful, smart and decent women of different sexual orientations who are having the same problems. It seems like the concept of 'dating' seems to have gone away. I mean what's nicer than someone asking you to go for dinner or a drink? But that doesn't seem to be the way things go anymore. Chivalry really does feel dead in so many ways. If you are single and reading this, when was the last time someone in a bar offered to buy you a drink? Even that seems like a dying trait!

The same wise auntie also said, 'Why would people eat at Deane's when they can try every restaurant in Belfast first?'. I then reminded her that we only have 2 Michelin stars in Belfast and one of them is a Deane's! The hookup culture is not one to be ashamed about. I'm all for people doing whatever they are comfortable with but seldom does it result in a lasting relationship.

What's the answer to all of this? I really don't know. I think often as women we do put pressure on ourselves to meet someone or compare ourselves to others ('But if so and so has a boyfriend, why don't I?). 

Timing is everything. I know people who have married and are getting divorced at my age so could be on a second marriage by the time I'm on my first. People keep saying 'you find someone when you least expect it' and maybe that's true. Perhaps we are all pursuing something so much that it puts a huge pressure on our expectations of what love is.

I've had times where I've said I'm giving up looking, whether that be after a bad experience or just sheer boredom from boring, meaningless conversations online. But I'm going to keep looking or at least, keep my eyes peeled. You never know, I could bump into him in IKEA or the petrol station - maybe when I'm least expecting it!

24 hours in Dublin guide

*post sponsored by Dublin Coach







I love a little overnight away to recharge my batteries and there's nothing better than a super quick trip to Dublin! I love Dublin because it feels a million miles away when really, it's only just down the road!

How to get there
Getting to Dublin is easier than ever with Dublin Coach. Hop on the coach next door to the Grand Opera House on Glengall Street. The service leaves every hour and gets you to Dublin in 2 hours. Unlike other services, the coach runs directly from Belfast to Dublin City Centre, dropping off at Dublin's Custom House Quay. 

The coach has USBs and WIFI for charging and browsing plus the seats are big and comfortable. The two hours flew in! Plus it's only £8 each way - bargain! 

Where to stay
I can highly recommend the beautiful Westbury Hotel, located just behind Brown Thomas. It's a really stunning hotel and so handy if you are on a major shopping trip. My favourite hotel (actually in the entire WORLD!) is The Merrion Hotel. It makes me feel so happy as I have very fond memories of a trip when I was a teenager. It's really homely and they have a fabulous spa in the basement too!

On this trip, we stayed in the brand new Iveagh Garden Hotel. It's Europe's first sustainable hotel and it's powered by the river that runs underneath the hotel. The hotel is really gorgeous - very modern and glamourous. It's a great place for a girl's trip and their bar & restaurant, Elle's, does amazing cocktails.

I've also heard great reports of House Dublin - they've also just opened up a sister Belfast version on Botanic Avenue that's worth a nosey.

Where to shop
I always head straight to Brown Thomas to look at all the gorgeous things and visit the babies in Chanel and Louis Vuitton! I also really love Armani makeup and Huda Beauty. Two of my favourite brands are a big reason why I venture to Dublin - COS and & Other Stories. Their clothes fit me so well - fellow tall girls take note. 

There's also a new Victoria's Secret in the old BT2 unit. It's really big and has a whole downstairs of the PINK collection.

If you want to explore some amazing Irish design, head to the Kilkenny Centre. They really champion local makers in everything from ceramics to jewellery. 

Where to eat
After asking you all on Instagram, Fire on Dawson Street came out as the top rated place to go. We headed there for an amazing meal - delicious steaks and the BEST PRAWNS I've ever had. The service is also fantastic. Highly recommended also came Sophie's at The Dean and Roberta's. I can also really recommend The Green Hen from previous visits.

We headed to The Woollen Mills Eating House for lunch on Saturday. They serve amazing lunch options from sandwiches to burgers. The restaurant is really chilled - a lovely juxtaposition to the location facing the busy Ha'penny Bridge. 

If you want some shopping fuel, make sure to grab a hot chocolate from Butler's Chocolate Cafe - the best!

Feeling inspired? Plan your perfect trip with Dublin Coach by visiting there website here.

New home, new vibes

*sponsored by TK Maxx





The start of this year has been an absolute whirlwind. Not only did I move to a new job but I moved into my first home! I've been saving for and working towards my own house for quite some time so I was delighted that I finally was able to make my dream come true! 

It's super hard saving for a deposit and also gathering up stuff for a house but I regularly frequented TK Maxx to stock up on essentials for my house - from my pineapple doormat to pots & pans! I feel like it's been such an amazing place to find both great value and one off gems that you know that no-one else will have. My local TK Maxx in Newtownabbey has a HUGE furniture section with lots of homeware goodness. As I've mentioned before, I do travel for a good TK Maxx find - a wee day trip to TK Maxx in Ards or Lisburn has also landed me some amazing finds! A little pro tip is to go in the morning, especially mid-week if possible! They seem to get great deliveries then!

Here's my top three picks that you need to look out for on your next TK Maxx adventure – and if you are anything like me you’ll find it hard to simply stick to these three things!

The best lamps EVER
Buying lamps was something I didn't realise was such a substantial task because you need SO MANY OF THEM! You become obsessed with finding really unique lamps and also feel super triumphant when you score an amazing pair of matching lamps for your bedside tables! I picked up the amazing gold & marble lamp in my local TK Maxx and it perfectly complements my jewel toned living room. Also I've picked up lots of really great lampshades for affordable prices - another thing that you don't realise you need lots of! Make sure to take a look in the homeware clearance aisle – there’s always some amazing lamps and lampshades there!

Soy candles GALORE
So fun fact about me: I'm really weird about candle ingredients. I'm a huge fan of soy candles both for their ingredients and their longer lasting burning time. Typically soy candles can be much more expensive but I always pick up amazing ones in TK Maxx which are great value. I've got everything from fresh cotton scents to gin & tonic! Warning: your friends will love them so much that you will end up buying loads to give out as gifts! My grandmother is now hooked after giving her some for her birthday & Christmas! I’ve picked up some of my favourite designer candles here over the years too so be sure to look out for some big names amongst the shelves!

Print perfect
My biggest spend since moving into my house has been on prints & photos to dress my house. I love black & white portraits, especially of old Hollywood icons! There's always an amazing selection and I have managed to buy one for almost every room of my house at this rate. The best bit is that you get the print/photo plus the frame. Most of my choices have been around the £30 - £50 mark, making them super affordable. I also have picked up some beautiful framed quotes for just £10 - a great way to dress an empty corner or bathroom.

Let me know what your favourite TK Maxx finds are - I always love to discover new things.

3 Belfast lunch options you need to try


I love to lunch. It's one of life great pleasures. But often, I love a cheap and quick lunch. An hour, something tasty that won't break the bank, all whilst catching up with a friend on my lunch break. I have 3 amazing options that you won't want to miss out on! 

Greens Pizza
Let me make this clear - Green's is the BEST pizza in Belfast. I've tried them all but I've been going to Green's for years and it continues to be the best. Not only is it the best pizza but their staff are lovely in both the Lisburn Road branch and the Ballyhackamore location (plus they are soon to open a third branch on the Ormeau Road!) Their lunchtime deal has pulled me out of many a bad mood and hangover. You get half a pizza & either house salad or garlic bread AND A DRINK for under a £8. It's the best deal around!

My choice? The Gilroy Twister. Meat, loads of peppers and 2 dips - divine! 

See their menu or order home delivery here.

Oliver's Restaurant
Oliver's is one of those 'suits everyone' type of restaurants (I also put Howard Street & Deanes at Queen's in this category). There's a little bit of everything on the menu from traditional fayre to daily specials. The best bit is that it's all super tasty and affordable. I've had a few lunch dates here lately and I love the setting. It's so homely and comforting. Made with lots of local ingredients, the food is hearty and delicious. I've had everything from amazing pulled beef sandwiches to the most AMAZING risotto. 

To book or to see the menu, head here

Bubbacue
The best bit about Bubbacue is that they have 2 branches now - hooray! Botanic Avenue and Callendar Street are super handy for grabbing a bite during work, uni or during a shopping date. I've been a long time fan of Bubbacue for the sheer value - it's tasty food that comes in big portions. I've long been an advocate of their mac & cheese - even if you say you don't like mac & cheese, you need to try it out! I've made a few converts of my friends lately! The owners of Bubbacue are the original Boojum owners so the fact they added a burrito to their menu lately made sense. It's SO yummy - packed with the most divine salsa and cheese ever!

See their menu and locations here.

Tried one of my lunch recommendations? Tweet me & let me know @GemmaLEBond 

Why this Men’s Project is one worth shouting about

*Sponsored by Aviva Community Fund







The Fund helps to provide much needed funding for community projects across the UK. That’s why was was so proud to see a local project, the North Belfast Men’s Shed winning funding this year. The North Belfast Men’s Shed provides an amazing safe space for men of all ages to come together to learn new skills, chat and have fun. They say women talk face to face & men talk side to side. The North Belfast’s Men’s Shed gives men the opportunity to make these important new friendships. The men do everything from wood-work to fishing and ballroom dancing! The multiple generational nature of the project means it’s also keeping hard earned skills alive. It’s totally free to attend and it’s open 9am-5pm, 5 days a week!

Their project, the Buddy Bench at North Belfast Men’s Shed initiative was awarded Aviva Community Funding just a few weeks ago. The project will allow the men of the Shed to spend time crafting Buddy Benches that will be donated to local schools. They hope to give a bench to every primary school in North Belfast. The benches are intended to be placed in the playground & a child can sit there if they feel sad or if they need a friend to play with. It’s almost like a little bit of the Men’s Shed community spirit brought to life in the playground!

I was so taken with the amazing men we met – so many of who reminded me of my late grandfather. He was a gardener for Belfast City Council and I know he would have adored going to the Men’s Shed! The lady who runs the project, Geraldine, is an absolute sweetheart. She spends her day running after a massive group of men and hopes it will continue to grow as they are soon moving to even bigger premises!




Have a family member or friend you think that would love the North Belfast Men’s Shed, email Geraldine for more information on: mensshed@ashtoncentre.co.uk

Belfast Men’s Shed is just one of the over 590 projects and charities that secured funding from the Aviva Community Fund this year. The nationwide initiative, now in its third year, launched in September 2015, called upon passionate residents to submit a project close to their heart to be in with a chance of securing funding ranging from up to £1,000 to £25,000.

Over 6,500 groups entered the funding initiative, each galvanising the support of their local community to vote for their entry in four categories: Health & Wellbeing, Skills for Life, Community Support, and Inclusivity.

5.5 million votes were placed this year and the 828 groups with the highest votes were shortlisted as finalists. Awards in the £1k category were decided on by public votes, with winners in the £5k, £10k and £25k categories selected from the finalists by a judging panel. 

If you’d like to find out about other Aviva Community Fund winners and find out who won in your local area, visit this page here.

All shapes and sizes


Hotel Chocolat kindly sent me some of their Valentine's Day range to try out (all delicious - I haven't met a thing I didn't like!) and it got me thinking about what Valentine's Day means to me. I typically find Valentine's Day hard. As an eternally single person, the concept of not being part of a pair to celebrate a holiday that is marketed to the high heavens makes me feel a little at a loss. It's a narrative I'm not part of. Valentine's Day can seem really twee and sickening but deep down, I find it sweet. 

I've really spent a lot of time over the past number of years thinking about love and what it means to me. A lot of this time has really helped to build out what my expectations of my 'perfect match' are - and maybe why he's so hard to find! I've learned so much about love from the relationships I see around me - the 30+ year marriages of my friends parents, the love my best friend has for her son and the love I have experienced in my daily friendships.

It is with that spirit of friendship that I celebrate Valentine's Day this year - and remember that love should be celebrated every day of life. I have been incredibly blessed with outstanding friendships that have taught me so much about sharing, caring, sacrifice and patience. All of these qualities I hope will build me into  a great partner when that person comes along. I really do think that every good relationship - romantic or otherwise, starts in the basis of good friendship. Friendships come in so many shapes in sizes unlike people who often have a romantic ''type' (mine is usually tall, dark and handsome!) - another stark reminder that if we only looked for friendship in one place that you'd never find what you are looking for. 

I remind my friends that I love them when I can - whether that's when I'm leaving their house or over long winded WhatsApp conversations. It is the love of my friends that keeps me going & motivates me to be a better person.

Remind your friends you love them Valentine's Day & as often as you can. Write them a card. Send them a text. Bring them a bunch of flowers - spread the love. It's only when someone isn't here that you realise you wish you would have said it more so say it now. 

Wishing you all love this Valentine's Day & every day